Wednesday, September 5, 2012

How Do I Respond When My Husband Is Pushing For Us Both To See Other People During The Separation?

I heard from a wife who said: "last week, my husband approached me and said he wanted a separation. He was very specific and said he would like for us both to date other people. I immediately assumed that he was doing this because he has a particular woman in mind. But he denies this. He says that he feels that dating other people would make our best course of action clear. His theory is that if we enjoy seeing other people, then it will be clear that we are not meant to be together. However, if the experience of dating others is a bad one and we miss one another, then we will know that we should fight for our marriage. I don't buy this theory at all. And I asked if he really feels this way, why he wouldn't just divorce me? He says that divorcing right now is not what he wants. He claims that dating other people will show us if we are meant to be married. I have no desire to see or date anyone else. But when I tell my husband this, he seems to get frustrated with me. What can I do?"

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